Smart Scheduling
Your schedule will be a guide you will follow in your efforts to meet your goals when things go as smooth as a well-oiled engine...and when the train runs off the track! Creating a workable schedule takes planning, perseverance and flexibility; but it doesn't have to be complicated.
So all of the materials you purchased arrived in the mail. Now what?! Give yourself time to sit down with pencil and paper and create a schedule. Whereas, "record keeping" refers to documenting events that have already occurred, for our purposes a schedule is a timetable created in the planning stages to meet your goals. If you haven't considered what you hope to accomplish - your goals - we encourage you to go back to the planning stage by developing your approach. To start, keep these "schedule keepers" in mind:
The habit of routine. Schedules are much simpler to keep when everyone knows in advance what to expect. Once your children are accustomed to starting at 8:00 A.M. each day, for example, it will be much easier to avoid disagreements and balking each day.
- Need a Do-Able Routine?
"By setting up family routines, we take away much of the daily stress and pain of deciding who does what, when they are to do whatever, and how much they are to do. Routines are simply a MUST! Our children have struggled at times when the routines were not clearly defined OR were in total chaos. Likewise, I have felt the frustrations that come along with constant decisions to be made or the pull of constantly having "extra" things to think about that could be just part of the routine, leaving my mind to think of more important things!" Planning help from Cindy Rushton.
The unanswered phone. Nothing can throw off a schedule faster than an extended, unplanned telephone conversation. Ah, yes, the joys of answering machines!
A can-do attitude. Someone didn't get enough sleep the night before? Your child have a bad case of the tired-and-grumpies? Rather than let a sour attitude prolong math, which drags into language, which flounders into history, before finally sinking into science - address it! Encourage the discipline of a "can do" attitude.
Reasonable boundaries.What are your "lesson hours"? Determine the times you would rather not be interrupted and let friends and relatives know. Most will be happy to call or visit during more convenient times.
The unplanned moments. Some of the best "educational" moments are those that were unplanned. While a schedule helps us stay on track for meeting our goals, the most useful schedule is a flexible one that allows for children to be children, moms to be moms, and homeschools to be homes.
Further Reading
- The Big,Bad Wolf
"Since we implemented a schedule and are following our own personal plan, our lives don’t leave us feeling as if we’re in the middle of a freeway with a horse and buggy. Our vehicle is a sleek sports car (okay, it’s a bus when you have eight blessings!), Jesus is the driver, and our schedule is what helps navigate around the potholes of life. We know that roads have sections that need to be repaved and repaired, so we try to plan for them and thus are driving and steering our lives with control." Not sure if a schedule is right for your family? Let Lorrie Flem convince you! - Can a Scheduled Mom be Spirit Led?
"The schedule is a tool the Lord Jesus has given me to help me to accomplish what He has called me to do—it is a part of my life being Spirit led. That means I am looking to the Lord for what should make up my schedule and how long should be allotted for each activity, not only for me but also for each of the children I am scheduling. The schedule is also flexible, allowing me to accept the changes that the Lord brings into a day that were not a part of the schedule." Encouraging words from Teri Maxwell. - Commit Thy Works Unto the Lord
"What a wonderful answer to all that grappling of mind! Instead of sitting around thinking, thinking, thinking, if I simply commit my works, my plans, my children, my day, my moments, every choice completely unto God, HE will establish my thoughts - He will guide, lead and conform my thoughts to His will. Then, all shall work out according to His perfect will." From Jeannie Fulbright. - Have You Chosen "The Better Part"?
"Don't leave the Lord in your bedroom or your 'quiet time,' walk on with Him from there out into whatever your day holds. Learn to keep your heart stilled and quieted and attentive before Him, regardless of what you are doing. If that means you have to close your eyes while you stir the soup or make more frequent trips to the bathroom simply to get somewhere where you can resettle and refocus your heart on Him, do whatever it takes." As you schedule, put the Lord first - and keep Him first! Encouragement from Maranatha Chapman. - Homeschool Management Tips!
An extensive list of practical time management tips from Tamara Eaton. - A "Plan" for Nature Study?
"So, somewhere in the last three years, I began to suspect that the plan I needed for this venture, homeschooling, was perhaps NOT to be found in my planning sessions, but in my devotion sessions." Michelle Duker explains that the perfect plan may not be the one you make. - Quick Tips For Setting Up Your Daily Schedule!
"Want to get more things of value accomplished this year? Want to be sure to beyond the basic academics? Want more time for those things that you never get around to? Nature Study? Reading Alouds? Writing and making homemade books?" Wonderful ideas from Cindy Rushton to help you plan and keep a workable schedule. - Time - The Greatest Gift
"Do we value our time as much as we value our children? 'Don’t waste my precious time,' we tell our distractors. Are our children trying to tell us, 'Don’t waste our precious childhood?'" Christine Field reflects on the value of time. - Too Busy?
"Where ten years ago we were the ones looking at the system school parents and shaking our heads over their tendencies to over-schedule their poor kids’ lives, today you see large numbers of homeschoolers doing the very same thing. As adults, we grouse to one another about life being crazy and never feeling like we have time to breathe anymore, but as homeschooling parents we’re teaching our children that this kind of lifestyle is acceptable and must be endured." Advice on avoiding over-scheduling from Tammy Cardwell.